Have you ever asked yourself, “Why am I here? What’s the real meaning of my life?” You’re not alone. In fact, one of the greatest struggles most people face isn’t about money, fame, or relationships—it’s about purpose.
The truth? Discovering your life’s purpose isn’t a walk in the park. It requires deep self-reflection, honesty, and sometimes even a few uncomfortable truths. That’s why many people live and die without ever unlocking who they truly are.
But here’s the good news: with the right questions, you can start your journey of discovery today. These four questions will not only help you uncover your life’s purpose but also guide you to set meaningful goals and live a life that feels truly yours.
1. Where am I in life, and where do I want to be?
If you don’t know where you are or where you’re going, you’re basically driving without a map—and probably running out of fuel.
This question helps you track your progress and identify the gap between your current reality and your dream life. Ask yourself:
- What have I done in the last month—or even the last year—towards my dreams?
- How many books have I read, and how many seminars have I attended to invest in myself?
- Have I actually written down the goals I want to achieve in 1, 5, or 10 years?
Remember: a goal not written down is just a wish. Your dreams deserve more than wishful thinking—they deserve a plan.
2. What is my talent or gift?
Talent is that one thing you can do exceptionally well—even without formal training. For me, it was writing. I wrote my first book at 23, and people kept asking, “Who taught you to write like this?” The answer? Nobody. It was a gift.
The same applies to you. Every person has at least one natural ability, whether it’s music, art, speaking, sports, or solving problems. The key is to identify it and nurture it.
Here’s the danger: Many people bury their talent under careers they don’t even like—just because of parental pressure, peer influence, or fear. That’s why so many live unfulfilled lives.
So, ask yourself honestly: “If I were to grade myself, what can I do better than anyone else in my community—or even the world?” Start there.
3. What am I passionate about?
Passion is fuel. It’s what keeps you awake working on your dreams while others are sleeping. Without passion, even the best talent can wither away.
Research shows that over 85% of people work in jobs they hate. No wonder heart attacks are most common on Monday mornings—our bodies literally rebel against work we don’t enjoy!
Your purpose will always align with your passion. If you’re pursuing something just because your parents, friends, or society said it’s prestigious, you may succeed externally but fail internally.
Take Juliana’s story, for example. Her daughter wanted to study engineering but was forced by her father to study medicine. Her natural strength was in math, physics, and chemistry—yet she was being pushed into a field that didn’t excite her. That’s a recipe for frustration, not fulfillment.
Follow your passion. Not your father’s dream, not society’s approval, but yours.
4. What angers or annoys me—and what makes me happy?
This might sound odd, but your anger is often a clue to your assignment.
The problems that make your blood boil are usually the problems you were born to solve. For me, I get angry when I see people settling for less than they’re worth. I get frustrated when I hear excuses like, “I couldn’t start my business because I had no capital.”
On the flip side, nothing makes me happier than seeing people break free, achieve greatness, and finally live their dreams. That’s how I knew my purpose was tied to mentoring, speaking, and guiding others to unlock their potential.
So, ask yourself: What problems make me restless? What solutions give me joy? The answers will point you straight toward your purpose.
Final Thoughts
Your life’s purpose isn’t something you “stumble upon”—it’s something you intentionally discover by asking the right questions, studying yourself, and paying attention to what fuels your joy and fire.
The four questions above are just the beginning. If you want to go deeper and learn how to set goals, break mental barriers, and move from where you are to where you want to be, I’ve laid it all out in my ebook:
Achieving Your Greatest Dreams: How to move from where you are to where you really want to be
This book has already transformed lives—including mine—from struggling and unfulfilled to walking in true purpose and financial freedom. Don’t just read about purpose. Discover yours.
